How do we choose a Hebrew name for our child?
There are many beautiful customs surrounding the choosing of a Hebrew name for your child.
Among Ashkenazi Jews, babies are usually named after a deceased relative. It is believed the good qualities of that person are reflected in the new baby, helping to carry on that loved one's memory. Among Sephardic Jews it is customary to name a new baby after a living relative. A Hebrew name can be chosen in different ways. You may choose a Hebrew name that will be used as the child's secular name as well. Parents often use the first letter of the secular name and choose a Hebrew name that begins with that same letter. You may also use the translation of the English name to derive a Hebrew name. Some parents simply find a Hebrew name they love and choose that for their child. Whatever Hebrew name you choose, it will be used for many life-cycle events. The Hebrew name is used for calling people to the Torah, as well as for legal documents such as the Ketubah (marriage contract). You can find suggestions for choosing a Hebrew name by searching the internet, or by looking in books. I highly recommend Alfred Kolatch's books for an easy to read reference. You may also discuss choosing a name with Dr. Grope or your Rabbi. |