Honored roles |
Prayers |
The Parents - Parents usually read or say something prior to the official naming of the baby. The baby's Hebrew name is often meaningful because it is traditional to choose a name in honor of a departed loved one. It is the name that will be used when he is called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah, and the name that will be used at future celebrations in his life.
Sandek - This is the most honored role at a Bris. The Sandek comforts the baby while the Brit Milah is performed. Some families give this role to a grandparent, others to a Rabbi or close friend. Sandek Sheni - (optional) - This helper gives the baby sugar water or wine during the circumcision to help keep him comfortable. Kvatter and Kvaterin- These are the honored people who bring the infant into the room where the Brit Milah is to take place. Some families choose to have more than one Kvaterin perform this Mitzvah. Candle Lighter - This is an optional role accompanied by a lovely reading. |
Prayers - The Kiddush and Hamotzi are said during the ceremony. Friends or family can recite these blessings. If there are siblings, it is nice to have them help by saying Hamotzi at the end of the ceremony.
Readers - If there are other individuals whom you would like to honor, they can be included here. |